How to be a ultra feminine warrior (part 1) - 4 tips

After writing the article about the Dakini more inspiration in the same direction keeps coming to me!
My blood rushes faster when I open myself for this and my heart becomes even more warm and vibrant. Because of this I will spend some more blogs on the subject of Female Coaching.

At first I want to emphasize that even though I use examples out of my personal experience, this 'I' is not that important. I´m only some small kind of moon, temporary blessed to reflect light of the sun!  I´m also not claiming my words are the truth or in anyway can be a replacement for psychotherapy or medical help, if you are in some kind of a psychological or physical crisis please contact a doctor. 

1. Love the other Dakini's in your life - A flower doesn´t compete with other flowers, she just blooms.
Never see your female friends and acquaintances as a competition. Don´t compare yourself with them! Admiring the feminine can be your basic setting but of course it´s natural if your friend just made something amazing and you are having weak days wherein you are not able to accomplish anything, that a wave of jealousy comes over you. I learned to see jealousy as something good. If you feel jealousy you can thank the universe for it! It shows you something about you, a craving of your soul. It´s an alarm bell ringing to remind you of what you came on planet earth for. To be awesome in your own ultra-feminine way! Jealousy is in the end nothing more than energy. If you open yourself up for this energy, you can transform this into something creative. In this way jealousy can even work as a domino effect where one woman after the other feels and acts amazing following her souls calling.

2. Show the Dakini your appreciation - Don´t hesitate to hug female friend or give her a compliment when you feel like it. If you do, it will have an effect on you like you just hugged yourself or gave yourself a compliment. Besides this it will also raise your vibration if you give praise to the invisible divine female energy. There are many ways to do this. You can use a statue of a Goddess and burn a candle for her, sit and meditate. You can go in nature and feel in your heart the thankfulnes for her creative life-force. Or just say or write down thanks to her. Thank yourself, standing before the mirror! Even when you are feeling miserable say thanks. Forms and feelings are changing and all gifts on the journey to yourself!

3. Nevertheless, cultivate feeling GOOD! Just the way you are.. Do things because you want to, not because others tell you so. Don't believe there is only one way to a ' succesfull'  kind of life. Be you're own guide in this.
The most female woman I know are woman who took risks in their lifes. Who followed their own hearts and own dreams. Not slowed by the ideas of family or society or anything. There is no plan except the plan you write yourself. That´s your soul. Sometimes you just have to make choices in your life just because your soul tells you too. Your rational mind may not understand and try to relativize with cold arguments why you should not. Or the fear becomes bigger than your trust so you run away like you just saw a ghost in your own mirror-image. Taking risks will for sure also bring you in the situation(s) where you feel like you are down there at zero. You could even come at a point where you even say out loud you wish to die. If so, your soul gives you the opportunity to find out on what in the world or on witch people or situation your happiness was depending. You can learn just to be there for you. Be convinced of yourself, do everything for yourself, speak delicate words to you like you are your own lover.

4. And this is the practical tip of today, please SELFIE yourself!
I tend to make a lot of selfies when I feel good and I don´t care if some people might find this weird or idle. I spended half of my so far life already thinking I was no good and not beautiful and I like to celebrate and cultivate my healing. And it´s really true, if your ideas about yourself change, the circumstances will change too. So now please decide, how delicious do YOU want YOUR LIFE to be? I want it to be just as delicious as my favourite kind of raw chocolate. Hmmmm, more on that subject later! ;)

Blessings and thank you!
Sisterlove,
Lauri


Ps: If you like, please share your self-love selfies down here, If at least 10 people do I will start practicing to stand on my head ( i can not do it yet! ) and show the results on my blog.  It will be hilarious for sure!